There are three ways for parents to teach children, namely:
1. Authoritatan
2. Permissive
3. Authoritave
What is the most appropriate for your child?
Dorothy Law Nolte said that children learn from the living environment. The details are as follows:
If the children live with criticism, he learns swore
If children live with hostility, he learns to fight
If children live with ridicule, he learns of inferiority
If children live in humiliation, he learned to regret it
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience
If children live with praise, he learns to appreciate
If the child is the best treatment, he learns justice
If children live with security, he learns confidence
If children live with approval, he learns to love
If children live with love and friendship, he learns to find love in life
Dorothy statement indicates that the environment, particularly in the form of family attitudes and behaviors of children.
All parents want their children to "succeed" in the future. Success in this case not on a career, but more about the various aspects of cognitive, affective and behavioral.
One way for children "succeed" in Daat future made of a family, that is applying the right of parents to parent the child. Errors that may have future a poor child, whether cognitive, affective and behavioral.
There are three types of styles of parenting, namely:
Authotarian
This model uses methods that require parents to their children. Children should obey their parents. Willingness of parents must be respected, custody should not be issued pendapat.Pola this may cause children to become fearful, anxious, withdraw from the association, less flexible, less objective, little suspicious of others and easily stressed.
Permissive
Permissive parents of children with nothing. Parents have a warm and accepting what it is. Heating tends to spoil, dituti keinginnannya. At the same time, accept what can give the child the freedom to do something. This may lead to ways to teach children aggressive, disobedient to parents, quasi-power, less able to control himself and attend school less intense.
Authoritative
Parents are very concerned about children's needs and gaps with regard to respecting the interests and needs. This may lead to ways to teach children self, have self control and confidence that strong, can interact with their peers, able to handle stress, have an interest in new things, cooperation with adult, submissive, obedient and performance oriented. The model of parenting affects children's behavior. Now back to us as future parents and parents to choose to love our children?
1. Authoritatan
2. Permissive
3. Authoritave
What is the most appropriate for your child?
Dorothy Law Nolte said that children learn from the living environment. The details are as follows:
If the children live with criticism, he learns swore
If children live with hostility, he learns to fight
If children live with ridicule, he learns of inferiority
If children live in humiliation, he learned to regret it
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience
If children live with praise, he learns to appreciate
If the child is the best treatment, he learns justice
If children live with security, he learns confidence
If children live with approval, he learns to love
If children live with love and friendship, he learns to find love in life
Dorothy statement indicates that the environment, particularly in the form of family attitudes and behaviors of children.
All parents want their children to "succeed" in the future. Success in this case not on a career, but more about the various aspects of cognitive, affective and behavioral.
One way for children "succeed" in Daat future made of a family, that is applying the right of parents to parent the child. Errors that may have future a poor child, whether cognitive, affective and behavioral.
There are three types of styles of parenting, namely:
Authotarian
This model uses methods that require parents to their children. Children should obey their parents. Willingness of parents must be respected, custody should not be issued pendapat.Pola this may cause children to become fearful, anxious, withdraw from the association, less flexible, less objective, little suspicious of others and easily stressed.
Permissive
Permissive parents of children with nothing. Parents have a warm and accepting what it is. Heating tends to spoil, dituti keinginnannya. At the same time, accept what can give the child the freedom to do something. This may lead to ways to teach children aggressive, disobedient to parents, quasi-power, less able to control himself and attend school less intense.
Authoritative
Parents are very concerned about children's needs and gaps with regard to respecting the interests and needs. This may lead to ways to teach children self, have self control and confidence that strong, can interact with their peers, able to handle stress, have an interest in new things, cooperation with adult, submissive, obedient and performance oriented. The model of parenting affects children's behavior. Now back to us as future parents and parents to choose to love our children?
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