I asked, because they are often parents, especially mothers, is so serious when talking about the achievements of children. In fact, rarely does not feel that women competed to proclaim the greatness of children them.
This phenomenon has been my experience for more than five years ago, and a chain of this phenomenon is increasing in the development of high school a few years ago. Until now, the emerging trend of bilingual schools and two of the curriculum (national and international organizations, adopted the program of study abroad).
The problem is, I fear that our society become victims of the industrialization of education. Schools are no longer trying to guide the child reaches the age of science, but a means to victory. See, now almost all children not only learn in school. They also take private lessons with a pattern using
understanding of educational material in schools and also non-academic tutoring in the development of talent (he said). To the extent that it is never my student did not have time to play, because seven days a week, closed school, tutoring lessons, piano lessons, foreign language, also help parents to work. I do not understand some parents setega the seacuh. These are the judgments, but this is also the fact that the child apparently I liked and the creation of learning did not help at all.
From there, I feel the need to talk to parents (and teachers):
Why is Mr. / Ms evaluate children are often vague and have no motivation to get the best results?
Why is Mr. / Ms always told the children to learn, even if during the school holidays it?
I have to ask, because I do not know anyone who does not need a break. Just as we are every day at work, children also need rest and recuperation. I do not agree when they say lazy because, as everyone of us will do something if we want and / or feel the need to do.
Needs main reason people do. Therefore, We Should not conclude a lazy kid Until you know why it shows this behavior. Example: in school. It was so secret That most children do not like school. But Almost never discussed why They are so out of school, while children were the resource persons Almost all toll That the school is required.
Here we come to another problem. A life for us all: comfort. We do not intend to make any satisfactory results, when we have a nice shape, physically and mentally. Experiment to see how we can work better when we're sick. How can we work with pleasure, when every day has always been plagued by the arrival of debt collection agencies, because we can not pay. Similarly, children. You can not
they can enjoy school activities because she felt in school activities do not create uncomfortable due to various pressures to obtain. In addition, the master of life and activity before the holidays when the school must still contend with the many tasks of teachers + parents talk about learning.
Intermezzo, of course, I want the criticism. Usually the teacher gives them during the holidays with the reasons children do not learn, if it is given the task. My question is not time to leave, tired of all the activities of the school? In answering this question, there are teachers who said he was still doing duty during the holidays and I always just say, if you want to become a teacher and bring home the work does not mean that students must do the same. They can only be his choice, he wants to rest, play, or continue their studies during the holidays.
We will again fire negotiations. So obviously we should not impose what we think is good for children. Although we know that the child has potential, you can develop.
If you do, I'm pretty sure that the child does not feel lucky to feel the pain they are experiencing. Finally, the optimal outcome should be increasingly absent. Even so, it does not mean that we do not need to do anything. One thing we do to children to achieve their best result possible. Yes, the only thing that the point of view (Later we will talk about in the next paragraph.)
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