Wednesday, May 18, 2011

on Leave a Comment

Gifted and Talented: Needs Or Happiness? Part Two

In the previous section, I discussed several points of view of parents or teachers of errors to solve the problem for gifted children. And there's one thing we must do for the children to achieve optimal results according to their potential. yes, something for every point of view we resume the discussion, and .....

One thing to every point of view

If you assess the needs of gifted children, gifted children are a resource means to achieve happiness, one thing is: the child needs. No one is hungry, and desperate to get food. So the guys want to do what you want, just create it, and he needs to make the attempt to do so. You no longer need to force or blame. If the evaluation of children with pleasure, one thing to do is: to lead the child to be grateful for what you have to maintain and develop their strengths.

Impact Now we talk all the views generated. If you use the light of the need, then perhaps encourage children to achieve maximum efficiency and achieve happiness by winning the contest. In this case, it behooves us to prepare to tackle the problems it faces. Among them, children have the potential of what you think. Children who felt strike because congestion has reached its peak. Or let your child in the sense of emotional and / or physical.

If successful in creating a need and the child finally does what you want, do not be surprised if you feel a moment, he is so brazen because they feel good. That is, if this is your plan, try to first learn a real potential for the child, the child wants and needs, and prepare well for moral education, it could really be like you want.

Finally, you'll still have to realize it was you who did it. Thus, success depends entirely on the child, not you who decides. Prepare yourself that you do not get frustrated when this desire is not obtained.

Now affected by what has Happened around if you're referring to the prospect of happiness. Most likely, you will of give your child a choice and let uterus make his decision. Basically, of course, Because You Want kids to enjoy his talents Could eventually grow to the optimum point.

The risks are, you will probably find activities for children alternately. Either because of boredom or feelings of inferiority. You must be careful with this because the intensity of boredom and / or failure will be able to make a frustrated child. We must help by providing knowledge about the possibilities that exist for komprihensif he really understands what is going to face when you select it, and what happens if you select one.

If you're trying to manage what their children. So this makes you have a lower risk of frustration of those who see it as a necessity. Why do not invite children to enjoy what is, rather than trying desperately to get there, so there is no way to put this goal.

This is another aspect to consider. That is, your perspective on giftedness may be the child sees no profit. Not until you finally scold the child, because its results are not in the best price. Your child will probably be on the level of average or above, but not the best, because the goal is simply to enjoy what he has done, not to be the best.

However, it is the best result obtained by the child and is for children, for children are happy with the child, and then thanked him with a treat and develop automatically.

What do you want, what do you think of gifted children are still children. Do not put the same time, an adult child because the child is really not small adults, they are children. And the kids are their world and we must respect. Children are also people who have full rights. We need to keep the baby himself, we also want to address. Let them learn what we do. Give them access to information, policies, and good luck in their own way.

***

Parents and children are the arrows of the bow, let Archer (God)

arrows that direct where it will be launched. You agree .......
Twitter Delicious Facebook Digg Stumbleupon Favorites More

0 comments:

Post a Comment