The shame, anger and the heart feels when you leave, when suddenly I heard a shout Edu "You bastard !!!". Or know where, but it was never like a father say something rude like that girl at home as no one spoke like that. Wah afraid of the neighbor's child is running Ooooh Edu heard on television. On television? Showed no favorite Teletubbies Edu no such bad words? Ooooh, I was also looking for Edu telenovela with Grandma. Oh .... prohibition can not see grandmother telenovela, which now is not whether Edu. Telenovela follow ur grandma and just watch the children alone.
Mind Children:
Oh, Mom / Dad gets mad, thanks to Edu said: "son of a bitch !!!". Despite Edu see that there om handsome hero on television that just imitate kok cuman Edu. Is it "bastard" is what the hell? Mom said harsh words, words. What is rude? Om Edu will not be as great heroes of television, many of whom like a lot of affection, grandmother, and she, of course, every day should be regarded as belonging to him, his mother and home to see if om. But Edu confused mom and dad, if stored Edu stories in the television movie, mom and dad proud. Mom and Dad often say uncle and aunt of Education: "Intelligent Edu Wah Loh, who can memorize all the stories movies Television. "While the Edu commercials on TV are also very proud mom and dad," said Edu smart, keep longer if Edu Edu said television advertising imitating funny and cute. But if Edu watch TV all the time, Mom and Dad's anger, "he said lazy Edu. And if you see you can not remember the movies and on TV spots. Edu Aduuuuuuh so confused.
As a parent, do not you ever experience a situation described above? Sometimes angry children imitating the scenes on television, but often praise and pride that children memorize with stories or ads on TV. When looking at a glance there seems to be double standards, even if it is not. As parents we know with certainty as appropriate and what is not, what is good and evil, so that we can determine which programs can be viewed and imitated and those who do not. Parents also know when watching TV, when the time to learn. But if children already know with certainty good and bad, if children already know all TV program are allowed to see and whether the child had come true Timeshare? Children may be confused and not understand, and even more if the standards determined by the parent that provided by the supplier (including parents are sisters, grandparents, aunt and uncle who attended day care).
Well, our question is how parents respond to children in the clock TV?
When children imitate violent scenes?
TV magic box that its existence has been a part of everyday life often a source of anxiety for parents whose children are still small. Fearing that the child lazy learning because the most popular channel concerned that children imitate the words and adeganadegan particularly anxious eyes of children become corrupted (less), and anxious children become more aggressive because influenced by a number of scenes of violence on television. However, it is recognized that need for fun, knowledge and information easily through the TV also inevitable. Television, more is always available and easily accessible, presents many choices, is a series of events in each TV channel, how to live viewers can choose which events should preferably be in accordance with the taste. Therefore, even if everyone already know the negative effects that might be caused to the existence
TV has been maintained. parental anxiety about the effects of television for children are very reasonable given that numerous studies show television has many good effects negative or positive. For example, research Liebert and Baron, the results:
Children who watch television programs that contain scenes of violence is the desire to to commit violence against children other than children who see the program neutral (does not contain elements of violence).
In the minds of many adults, movies, cartoons and films deemed to be a movie robots children and safe for consumption by their presentation formats tailored to Day Care. True? The answer is not suitable for all films consumed by children. For example, Bart Simpson and Pencil Sinchan is very popular
Indonesia is not really suitable for children, as told in the language, materials and negligent conduct. But the early onset, the parents leave the two films monitors the submission of children and the time that fits with the time children watching television. After walking for some time before parents understand that the show not suitable and occupied-occupied protested to the TV channel. Finally so that the film is marked as not for consumption in children.
If you want more, in fact, many of the "boys" film that really seems to crisis violence and harsh words (though not as bad as hell adult movies), although many there are good scenes (usually because the film tells the story of conflict between good and evil). Examples of films that have both elements the movie is Popeye the Sailor Man, Batman & Robin, Power Puff Girls, Power Rangers and Sarah 008th
These films are very popular in the world of our children so often become a model imitated by children. Although it contains scenes of violence, but these films seem not to cause anxiety for parents, parents feel safe leave the children, after seeing these films. At the same time, it was a movie for adults and scenes of violence or not, children are often not allowed clock. This already shows double standards given to the child's parents.
The violence in adult films should not be seen, but the violent scenes from movies Children must be watched, then violence can or not? Then, if there is no possibility of children can imitate the scenes of violence or harsh words that exist in filmfilm because they see that their parents let them watch the movie freely?
What should parents do?
Since it is very difficult (or impossible) for parents to keep them away from television, so that parents make good some of the following: Accompany the child to see and give explanations. Indeed, rather than parents suddenly scold or praise the child, the first thing to do is understand and support children watching television.
If children answer questions in detail and in accordance with the development children. Many things are not known to the child, if there is no said it is in trial and error, imitation of adults. You experimental follow results as well as right or wrong, the child can not know. This is a task parents always make sense for the child, consistently. Confusion children because the double standard applied to parents can also be resolved if the parents give explanation of the child.
Create schedule of activities for children
Mind Children:
Oh, Mom / Dad gets mad, thanks to Edu said: "son of a bitch !!!". Despite Edu see that there om handsome hero on television that just imitate kok cuman Edu. Is it "bastard" is what the hell? Mom said harsh words, words. What is rude? Om Edu will not be as great heroes of television, many of whom like a lot of affection, grandmother, and she, of course, every day should be regarded as belonging to him, his mother and home to see if om. But Edu confused mom and dad, if stored Edu stories in the television movie, mom and dad proud. Mom and Dad often say uncle and aunt of Education: "Intelligent Edu Wah Loh, who can memorize all the stories movies Television. "While the Edu commercials on TV are also very proud mom and dad," said Edu smart, keep longer if Edu Edu said television advertising imitating funny and cute. But if Edu watch TV all the time, Mom and Dad's anger, "he said lazy Edu. And if you see you can not remember the movies and on TV spots. Edu Aduuuuuuh so confused.
As a parent, do not you ever experience a situation described above? Sometimes angry children imitating the scenes on television, but often praise and pride that children memorize with stories or ads on TV. When looking at a glance there seems to be double standards, even if it is not. As parents we know with certainty as appropriate and what is not, what is good and evil, so that we can determine which programs can be viewed and imitated and those who do not. Parents also know when watching TV, when the time to learn. But if children already know with certainty good and bad, if children already know all TV program are allowed to see and whether the child had come true Timeshare? Children may be confused and not understand, and even more if the standards determined by the parent that provided by the supplier (including parents are sisters, grandparents, aunt and uncle who attended day care).
Well, our question is how parents respond to children in the clock TV?
When children imitate violent scenes?
TV magic box that its existence has been a part of everyday life often a source of anxiety for parents whose children are still small. Fearing that the child lazy learning because the most popular channel concerned that children imitate the words and adeganadegan particularly anxious eyes of children become corrupted (less), and anxious children become more aggressive because influenced by a number of scenes of violence on television. However, it is recognized that need for fun, knowledge and information easily through the TV also inevitable. Television, more is always available and easily accessible, presents many choices, is a series of events in each TV channel, how to live viewers can choose which events should preferably be in accordance with the taste. Therefore, even if everyone already know the negative effects that might be caused to the existence
TV has been maintained. parental anxiety about the effects of television for children are very reasonable given that numerous studies show television has many good effects negative or positive. For example, research Liebert and Baron, the results:
Children who watch television programs that contain scenes of violence is the desire to to commit violence against children other than children who see the program neutral (does not contain elements of violence).
In the minds of many adults, movies, cartoons and films deemed to be a movie robots children and safe for consumption by their presentation formats tailored to Day Care. True? The answer is not suitable for all films consumed by children. For example, Bart Simpson and Pencil Sinchan is very popular
Indonesia is not really suitable for children, as told in the language, materials and negligent conduct. But the early onset, the parents leave the two films monitors the submission of children and the time that fits with the time children watching television. After walking for some time before parents understand that the show not suitable and occupied-occupied protested to the TV channel. Finally so that the film is marked as not for consumption in children.
If you want more, in fact, many of the "boys" film that really seems to crisis violence and harsh words (though not as bad as hell adult movies), although many there are good scenes (usually because the film tells the story of conflict between good and evil). Examples of films that have both elements the movie is Popeye the Sailor Man, Batman & Robin, Power Puff Girls, Power Rangers and Sarah 008th
These films are very popular in the world of our children so often become a model imitated by children. Although it contains scenes of violence, but these films seem not to cause anxiety for parents, parents feel safe leave the children, after seeing these films. At the same time, it was a movie for adults and scenes of violence or not, children are often not allowed clock. This already shows double standards given to the child's parents.
The violence in adult films should not be seen, but the violent scenes from movies Children must be watched, then violence can or not? Then, if there is no possibility of children can imitate the scenes of violence or harsh words that exist in filmfilm because they see that their parents let them watch the movie freely?
What should parents do?
Since it is very difficult (or impossible) for parents to keep them away from television, so that parents make good some of the following: Accompany the child to see and give explanations. Indeed, rather than parents suddenly scold or praise the child, the first thing to do is understand and support children watching television.
If children answer questions in detail and in accordance with the development children. Many things are not known to the child, if there is no said it is in trial and error, imitation of adults. You experimental follow results as well as right or wrong, the child can not know. This is a task parents always make sense for the child, consistently. Confusion children because the double standard applied to parents can also be resolved if the parents give explanation of the child.
Create schedule of activities for children
Children must also learn that there is a time for each activity. Set Delete the time while watching TV when you study and when to play. Although children relaxed by watching TV, the kids still have time to play. Television children to become passive condition to receive and absorb information on body position which is also passive (just sitting) so the child will still need time to play (especially play with other children) so that they remain active and able to socialize. They remain need time to run Larian, chat with friends and playing with toys.
The timing could affect a child watching television is always accompanied by parents. Selecting a television program suitable for children. Even if there is no time to accompany the child, parents should choose a TV program really suitable for children. Before the children can watch television programs particularly parents, you know the program is suitable or not for children, for parents was the first to watch the program and conduct the evaluation. Lest Sinchan pencil case from happening again. To do this, of course, it takes patience and sacrifice of parents, while parents have to sacrifice their own pleasure watch TV for search and selection of appropriate television programs for children dear.
Foster cooperation with the whole family.
The timing could affect a child watching television is always accompanied by parents. Selecting a television program suitable for children. Even if there is no time to accompany the child, parents should choose a TV program really suitable for children. Before the children can watch television programs particularly parents, you know the program is suitable or not for children, for parents was the first to watch the program and conduct the evaluation. Lest Sinchan pencil case from happening again. To do this, of course, it takes patience and sacrifice of parents, while parents have to sacrifice their own pleasure watch TV for search and selection of appropriate television programs for children dear.
Foster cooperation with the whole family.
Creating a partnership with the whole family, because the cooperation of all members family (including goalkeepers) is very important. Make sure that all families have the same effect on children and television issues. Imply family members who somehow sometimes must sacrifice the pleasure of a good child. Do not let the rules be applied parents against children, was not adopted by other family members when a parent no place.
Pursuant to Action
Parents and guardians should always be consistent and not enough to give meaning to the child, children, she knew exactly what should what is not, what is good and what is bad.
Pursuant to Action
Parents and guardians should always be consistent and not enough to give meaning to the child, children, she knew exactly what should what is not, what is good and what is bad.
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