Tuesday, June 7, 2011

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What Emotion As A Reaction To Baby?

Do not get me wrong, the child can show his feelings. Good or not. As long as they are handled properly, poor emotional response can not be settled until the Great.

Often you see a child crying when hungry. Before you take milk, do not

stop mourn even more difficult. But if the needs are met,

stop crying.

Well, cry babies, and a form of communication is to inform prabicara need / want also to show the child's emotional reaction to an unpleasant situation.

Emotional reactions such as infant, in fact, still reasonable, because the child reacts to an unpleasant situation hungry. "But if the exaggerated response, such as crying

continue, but gave him milk, then there is something about the baby. Are you sick

or there is an abnormality in the child nervous. "

It is important for parents to know and acknowledge the emotional reactions of their children. Therefore, the emotional reaction of these children also affect the baby later in life, especially in the social adjustment of children. "In this first year of age, babies are adapting to the air, food and the environment around it baby. At this age, babies start to develop emotions polish." Therefore, parents should take care to correct the physical and mental needs of children, to the smallest.

You can not draw

Initially, at birth, the child is always a simple emotional reaction, which express the feelings and lack of fun fun. "Babies will respond happy when needs are met to drink his milk, with a sound that seemed to be convinced. Instead, it will respond not happy cries when her diaper is wet. "

To be sure, in the early months, infants showed no obvious response, which states that the baby specific emotional state. Suppose angry. Not everyone has the feeling of joy will be expressed in tears.

"Well, the first months of this child would affect the response of the parents' at a later date. For example, if you delay milk when the baby is hungry or wet diaper action, so that the child feel uncomfortable . Even if he can respond only to cry, but the seeds of an emotional disappointment and anger began to arise in children. "

From two months of age children can react to a smile when she was happy and excited. At the age of three months starts to react by releasing the sounds that express the indignation when he was upset and angry, as if he could get his toy. Sometimes also expressed their crying and yelling.

6-9 months are familiar with fear. Would that he had to know the people around him? So when he was abandoned by his parents, he would feel afraid and began to release voices fear or cry.

"Basically, increases the child's age, emotional reactions most distinguished and more. Because with age and more mature nervous system and muscles, the child is also developing various emotional reactions." For example, the age of 2 months feelings, if expressed his joy with a smile, so that the more he can express his joy by freeing the voice or laughter when asked to speak with his parents . In fact, he was able to walk and run when there is a feeling of joy, he could rebound or running.

Also, try fear. Usually, the frightened child in a dark room, the animals are alone, and the people are strangers to him. Maybe at first, if he only reacts with fear to cry. As if he was helpless, and how to seek help. Increased in all age groups and motor skills, he could hide from him, or hug the mother's body, pulling the blanket covering his face, or run away from something that scares him.

This feeling angry with his child, for example, at the age of 6 -9 months, when the child can throw objects or stomping when the emotions of anger, his reaction would have been generated. When the reaction is considered funny and emotionally satisfying, is repeated. "Well, tell me if the child is really feeling the anger, or simply want to try throwing objects in the sense that he was to discover, of course, parents should see if you need that can not be satisfied or not is something that has angered or not.

It can still change

Therefore, parents should know and recognize your baby's emotional reactions, whether good or not. No, the emotional reaction that continues until the baby is big and ugly. Why do children learn to use this reaction as a tool to achieve their goals. Especially in times of difficult emotions, age 0 to five years. If you do not see often, the angry boy lying on the floor, sitting feet trampling, kicking or throwing all sorts of things?

"In fact, even when the child sentiment can still change, as new and growing." Therefore, parents must be vigilant in their child's feelings. "If there is an emotional reaction in children who are just as good, at least we can eliminate or reduce to a minimum." In other words, parents must exercise self-control from early childhood.

But the train is a must. For example, when a child wants to drink milk and cry with impatience, you should respond immediately. If bottle-feeding should be first, then talk to the boy next to him. For example, 'Yeah, wait, yes, dear. This mother had been made from milk. You know, in fact, if his sister was hungry. "

If the child can explore and be seen, apparently angry because it was difficult to get the desired toy for the baby, so help us facilitate how they make toys. When he managed to do, that the praise: "Hurrah! Smart Mom Son. Capek, right? Come, sit."

So even if your child has started many motor skills such as walking or running. When an angry reaction occurs physically, such as kicking, throwing or hitting, we must always be given to understanding. "If you're angry, do not do that." Ll foot should you become ill after kicking a chair. Why are you angry? Say the same mother. "

Thus, children trained to control his physical. Only later, when he was angry, probably not before responded to physical danger. Maybe it's just an expression of his face that look red.

Usually increases with age, emotional reactions to the physical movement of the muscles weaken. Especially when the child was able to speak, then the emotional reaction is manifested by increased reaction of the tongue.

Many have not Disallow

However, in training or education of a child's emotional, it is advisable not many restrictions, as they cause fear in children. For example, "Adek, do not play for her, roaches, I'll bite!

In fact, children are unaware of the existence of a danger to himself, but because his facial expression and tone of his voice frightened her, the baby's condition is to be feared. "The ban is acceptable if there is a danger. If not, should be avoided." However, the need to inform the language and facial expression is good.

It is clear that if, after the child properly trained in emotional control, the reaction can manage emotions. But perhaps the nature of the injury still exists, but not too large. "It is a measure of security, and negative emotional reactions are not wanted."

Remember, if not from the beginning that we are our emotions of the baby, it will be difficult to change as the child grows. It is even possible that these emotional reactions will continue until the child is an adult. Of course, do not want it?
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